Who is a Leader?

When I hear inspirational leaders I think of teen motivational speaker Sadie Robertson, climate change activist Greta Thunberg, or even pop singer Demi Lovato. These three are often seen in the news or on social media speaking and expressing their views about something they are very passionate about. They are famous so of course when they speak, whether it is through music or events, many people tune in to listen and hear what they have to say.  

But, what about those who do not have the same resources to reach thousands of people and large audiences or the ability to network their ideas nationwide. 

In Inspire to Actions, Simon Sinek speaks about that common day person and how they can start their movements and how to take action within a community and become a leader. His main point throughout it all is that a great leader is able to set aside the hate and violence just to show how people can accomplish getting from point A to point B, from within their movement. Which just means that in order to be an accomplished leader you need to be an expert on describing where we, as the people, are going in the future despite what is going on. 

For example, the most inspirational leader I can think of was one of the twentieth century’s best advocates for nonviolent social change, he was so powerful that overtime laws were changed and the Civil Rights Act was put in place. Martin Luther King Jr. spoke to thousands of people about what he believed was right and wrong, and he also lead thousands of people in non-violent protest. He was creative, he was voluntary, he acted and spoke with poise, and he expressed to the people how to get from where they were all the way to where they wanted to be. 

Martin Luther King Jr. – Biography.com

So in order for an average person like you and myself to become a leader, we need to take action and not just sit back and watch. We cant be discouraged just by who we are but we must be encourage to see where we can go and what we can do. 

As I sit here and type, I can’t think of any-one cause I would want to lay it all out on the line for and follow and lead. But, if I had that passion then I know that I could look within my school to help me follow it. Diane Wolk-Rogers, a high school teacher, talks about how her students lead and planned a movement within their school. One day at Margery Steelman Douglass High School, Diane and her students were some of the many that made it to safety after a mass shooting occurred within the halls of the school. They were scarred and scared after it happened, but they were also inspired, they wanted the laws to change so that this awful event would never happen to anyone else anywhere else. Diane watched her students lead protests and marches to try and change what they believe were senseless gun laws. She says that she saw the group develop in front of her from a core group of leaders who were eager to engage all about the same issue. 

Students rally for gun reform, Wikipedia

If CHS were to experience the same thing that Diane and her students experience, I know students would be eager and willing to take charge for a change. Not only would CHS unit and rally together, but from within the true leaders would sprout and we would have our own “Greta’s” and “Sadie’s” and even a few “Demi’s” just in one spot. And leadership and encouragement would be overflowing from one place. People wouldn’t be scared because they are comforted by their peers, and they would also be talking about the future and what was to come in a positive way. 

So not only can a movement arise from anywhere but this movement can be life-changing and so can its leaders.

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Where do you find your source of strength? For example, my three year old cousin finds his strength within his older brother, Trucker, and of course his favorite show, Bubble Guppies. These two things not only make him smile, but he longs for them when he is scared or sad. This sounds like the regular toddler, but Ryder is different. He has autism. Ryder’s case is pretty common for children with autism because he still cannot speak and everything that a normal baby learned came to him at a much later time. Unlike nap time and playing at regular preschools he has to go to a different school, one where he has one-on-one learning that can help him tremendously in his development.

It just so happens Ted Radios episode of  “Overcoming” special guest Temple Gradin also has autism. She talks about how since she was young, her parents knew she didn’t act and interact with others as a normal little girl did. Since then she went to many doctors appointments and met with many neurologists, who all told her she had brain damage. This ailment caused her to not fit in with others or have many friends which later led to depression. Even though this diagnosis was cruel to her as a child it eventually led to Mrs. Temple’s greatest life achievement, cattle-processing facilities all over America. She states that if she wasn’t faced with the challenges that came along with autism the she would have never succeeded in and would never of pushed herself as much as she had to. 

Not only is Mrs.Temple Grandin a miracle but she is hope, hope for other autistic kids, and hope for Ryder. Her struggles with autism allowed her to dig deep to find her inner strength and once she did, she realized that she could use her disability to solve problems that others couldn’t. 

As a child with disabilities Ryder’s parents are prepared to be there for him when times get tough as he grows up, such as times that Mrs. Gradin experienced during her childhood. Because they know this world is cruel, especially to those that are different.  All of this goes to show that Ryder and other children with disabilities that have been “different” from the day they were born, will have to continue to find sources of strength through their friends and family in order to bring a smile to their face during hard times, no matter what is thrown at them.

So no matter who or what has you down, find that one thing whether it is your brother, your favorite TV show, or even science to pull you out of the deep end. I challenge you to allow it to help you overcome and give you the strength you need to get over the obstacle. Because you are strong and loved and you can do anything you put your mind too!